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Flirting & My Stories

Flirting & My Stories


I promised you a flirting animation in the last video, so here you go. BURPITY BURRRR Big shocker…I don’t like it. *Chuckle* I’m assuming you all guess, based on my personality, That I’m not one to partake in (SEDUCTIVELY) “swooning” someone over with charming words of flattery…. I don’t think I have ever flirted in my entire life, come to think of it. Okay, well, I did this one time by accident, but I-I’ll get to that later on. I’m more of a, “Make someone feel good and just, overall let them know I care about them” kind of person. (=‐ω‐=) I have no courage to do anything else. All I can imagine is me just trying to approach someone, being like, “Hey there” ……… (what da) “I have a girlfriend………” “OH MY GOD! SAME!” “We have so much in common!” (not realy) … :I *D E E P I N H A L E* ._. Agh, O F F” And even if I somehow got past the initial “flirty introduction”, My low small talk skills won’t get me very far with anything anyway. Okay, so, the first time I ever tried to be a “confident flirty person” or whatever was with this one friend I had. I liked them at the time and we hung out a lot. And one time, we were just sitting on their bed, just chillin’ and talkin’. Just buds being buds. And my mind just starts going, “Okay, you’ve never done anything close to flirting in your entire life. Who even are you? Get your crap together,” “Just do something, let’s go, jeez, c’mon-” I basically bullied myself into submission, which, I didn’t even know was possible, but, congrats to me, I guess. 😀 I peer pressured myself without any peers. So, we were just talking and I just, wrapped my arm around them. Like, with no warning. They were just mid sentence and I was like, ANGH And I IMMEDIATELY regretted it. Like okay – no this is not what i want anymore, why did i convince myself to do this. I’m – god dangit! Cutting the story short, we just remained friends, and, honestly, I’m glad we did. I realized that I prefer this person much more as a friend and I’m glad we didn’t start a relationship. If anything, we just become closer as pals. They are literally, one of my best friends now. They also watch my videos, soo, hey You’re probably expecting me to say this is awkward, but you’re wrong! BUT YOU’RE WRONG!>:D WE’RE BEST FRIENDS! *swag intensifies* Sorry! you can’t laugh at my self-deprecation this time! HA! Just a side tangent, I don’t understand why people just stop talking to someone just because they don’t share mutual feelings with them. like ok so.. You like someone enough to possibly consider starting a closer relationship, Which means, You already enjoy their company, personality and overall, them as a person. And just because they don’t share the same romantic feelings back, you all of a sudden, don’t want to associate with them anymore? That makes absolutely NO sense. Minus the relationship, you two sound like you could’ve had a freagin’ BOMB friendship. Since you theoretically should be able to get along perfectly, I mean, if you consider them as an adequate possible partner, I dunno, it just doesn’t make sense to me. eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh unless you’re a douche bag and only like that person for their looks and nothing else. Another part to flirting is, The texting, the messaging, the sliding in the dms-ing. And I don’t really do that either, but I have something to say about it. So, I guess I understand why you would want to wait a few minutes to text someone back, because you don’t wanna seem clingy or something. But, why do people wait, like, more than ten minutes? That’s such a waste of time! And it kinda comes off that you don’t really care that you’re talking to them. Which is the opposite of what you’re feeling. Why can’t we show when we appreciate someone anymore? Also, I know people who want to text someone they like as little as possible, because, I dont know. They’ll almost make it a competition to try and leave the conversation first. They’ll almost make it a competition to try and leave the conversation first. Like, “Congrats! You win on finding a way to make them be the last to text in your conversation!” “You know what your prize is?” “Not getting to talk to the person you wanna talk to!” Putting it that way doesn’t make it seem all that appealing, does it? So now I’m sure you’re wanting me to tell you stories that make me kind of die a bit inside, but provide you with entertainment. (Sarcastically Enthusiastic) Let’s start with awkward first date, shall we? (Sarcastically Enthusiastic) Let’s start with awkward first date, shall we? During my junior year of high school after our homecoming dance, My group of friends and I wanted to go bowling, because, fun. I didn’t have a date. Obviously. At the bowling place, next to our lane, were a group of people around the same age as us. And, out of the blue! One of my friends just goes, “HEY! WILL YOU GUYS TAKE A PICTURE WITH US SO IT LOOKS LIKE WE HAVE DATES!?” (Silence) “RACHEL!” So, we took pictures with these random people, And the one that was my date- “date” was like, “Heh, you should send that to me.” And me being freagin’ innocent and clueless, just goes, “Okay!” “Wait, I don’t have your number.” “wait” “did I just…” “how did I do that?” So blah blah blah I had this persons number now, And I was like, “Oh yeah, I totally meant to be all smooth like that.” To my friends. But, in reality. Ehh, technically, uh, NAH I have no idea what I’m doing. 😀 They end up asking me to the movies and I was like, “ok” But my parents didn’t want me to go alone, so they made me invite Kate and her boyfriend at the time to go as a double date. So we all go to the movies, and since I literally don’t know anything about this person, we didn’t know what to talk about. The whole time. It was all just, “flop” conversations like, “So how was your day?” “Good, how about you?” “Good.” “What’s your favorite color?” uuhbtt AAUGHH It was really… UUUUUUGH I can’t, uhbbt. auggh. It was, scarring. Like, I’m serious, I will never accept any movie invitations unless it’s with close friends or family. All that comes to my mind when I think about movie theaters are just, flashbacks… Like, I don’t wanna relive that! I already lived through it once. That’s quite enough. No more please. So that story wasn’t too bad, just awkward tension- COME ON LET’S BUMP IT UP A BIT! Awkard first kiss! (Oh dear god) so hey my first date was with someone i literally didn’t know you think i’d learn my lesson and would kinda get to know someone before i accepted date invetations, right? W R O N G (hint i’m bad at saying no to people) Also, this is my second date ever. Just putting that fact out there. During my freshman year in college, this person invited me to go on a date, and yeaah, I didn’t know them either. like at all. I’VE LEARNED MY LESSON NOW, OKAY!? We meet up and decide to eat at a restaurant, and heyo, I’ll save some time just by saying, It was going VERY similar to my first date. EXPOSITION TIME! My college has this mountain near it called, “A mountain” and people liked to hike it. Well, I- umm, it’s really not even a hike, more like, walking up at a mild angle. So we wound up walking up “A Mountain” and sitting on a rock platform at the top. And we continued attempting at a normal conversation *not really succeeding.* At one point they put their arm around me Come to think of it, all these stories are kind of coming full circle and I never realized and I’m kinda freaking out And I kinda start just panicking to myself. *Okay, I see where this is going, but I don’t know if I want to end up kissing them.* *Like, I literally know nothing about this person- AGAIN* *And I haven’t kissed anyone yet, what is even happening right now? Oh golly jeez* And all of a sudden, they grab my face and turn it towards them And I’m going, *I SEE WHAT’S ABOUT TO HAPPEN BUT CRAP I DON’T KNOW IF I WANNA KISS THEM YET!* “Oh, well I ran out of time.” So anyone who just happens to take a date up to the top of “A Mountain” and sit on the platform thing, You’ll be sitting on the same spot I accidentally got kissed by someone. And if you’re there, Take a picture and tweet it at me. I’d say preferably if you guys kissing but that’s kind of weird, and I mean, unless you want to. This last story isn’t really about flirting or dates, but I think it’s kinda funny. I was hanging out with an ex-friend, and we were walking along our colleges main strip, It’s a street called “Mill” and it’s got a bunch of stores and restaurants along it. And just because I like how all these stories are kinda connecting, the restaurant first kiss and I went to was on this strip too. We sat down at a bench outside a shop and these two passersby go, “Awwww, relationship goals.” as they walk into the shop. We kinda looked at each other and laughed and just kept talking. Then, a few minutes later, the same people left the store and walked by us again and were like, “so how long have you guys been together?” And we were like, “Et-Umm” Like, we froze. And after a bit, I just go, “He’s gay.” Their faces were like, *INHALE* “WE MADE A MISTAAAAAAAKE” So, moral of the video, don’t overthink relationship stuff or dates or kissing or whatever you’re overthinking. If you like someone, tell them. If you want to date someone, ask them. If you wanna kiss someone, give them more thinking time before you yank their head at your face. Just be cool about it all If you can’t be a couple, then show the world how BOMB you guys are as friends! ALSO! SUPER SPECIAL SECRET ANNOUNCEMENT! I’m gonna try and whip up a video explaining this a bit more, but basically, THERE’S BEEN A REVAMP TO THE SHOP! A bunch of new merch stuff but more importantly, PLUSHES! YEP-YAHP! There is Jaiden plushes, just, AWAITING YOUR PURCHASE NOW. More details in the official announcement video. But if you’re still here, that means you have early access to the new Jaiden merch.>:D I highly suggest checking that stuff out especially since everything’s on sale for a limited time right now WUUUUUUUUUUUT Anyway, new shop, go peep it out and yeah UUUUHHHH JAIDEN OUT! *hah*

100 thoughts on “Flirting & My Stories”

  1. i already know what you guys are gonna say and no, none of these stories are about james so you can take off your detective hats thankyaverymuch

  2. When somebody tells you that they like you but you dont have any relationship skills and your bad at showing your feelings, So you just buy them things hoping that they realize that your bad at relationships…
    Nobody else….just me?…
    ;^;

  3. I had a crush on a girl aka, traitor, and ex friend. She liked me back, but ended our friendship over text… I'm 10 and it was my first heart break XD but now I hv a new crush… She's awesome! Also my old ooold crush was a boy and I liked him for 4 years since kinder and he liked me only for 2 :p he moved faaaaar away but I'm glad, he did paranormal activity in bathrooms at school :^

  4. 4:23
    Jaidens date: I will ask her out to go to the movies! Then we will fall in love and have a future together!

    at the movies

    Jaiden: What’s your favourite colour..?

  5. I dont flirt but if I do, I mean what I say. And I am in a relationship for over a year so if I ever say something flattering, I mean it in a nice, friendly way. No hint of further involvement, thank you!

  6. And for the “why don’t you still want to talk to the person, if they don’t feel the same”, it’s because it’s so awkward and it’s better off that way, I sweeeeaaaar.

  7. so … im the sterotype of a "class clown" i make jokes constantly in class and also just basically LOVE to piss off the teachers… LETS GET TO THE POINT

    so i been planning on asking this girl out for a while…
    and one day in class i ran up on them and said:

    "HEY I HAVE STDS"
    "DO YOU HAVE STDS"
    "DO YOU WANT STDS"

  8. "I was hanging out with an ex friend."
    Question: Why do so many more women seem to get into the situation of having "ex friends" then men?
    Answer: women are more emotional then men and hold grudges generally more often as a result.
    Women's worst enemies in life are generally other women, which leads to grudges from years ago, that they still haven't gotten over stuff from.
    Just stating a fact of human psychology.

  9. There is a reason why "50 shades of grey" became such a popular female fantasy book, at the same time that anti-masculine BS was being pushed by the third wave feminists.
    To que one ladies internet comment I read before: "There is no such thing as toxic masculinity. Just masculinity, and that's hot as f**k."

  10. Hay jaiden, good point I have a good friend who loves your vids and I liked her but ske didn't like me but I kept hannig out with her

  11. I have no flirting skills, I'm a very awkward person. I can barely look at a girl for 3 seconds without feeling weird for some reason, maybe its because I'm a teen and I'm not that confident.

  12. Jaiden has much in common with me social wise except I have been diagnosed with ugly and cringy to the point we're I feel embarrassed at the fact that some body likes me and even if I do get into a relationship with that person deep inhales it usually ends within a week because they either realize it was a mistake to date me or because due to again feeling embarrassed at the fact somebody likes me deep exhale 2 I stay really quiet and reserved not really answering texts and due to the fact that I have been diagnosed with ugly and cringy deep exhale 3 with a vengeance every time I do try to ask someone out they will usually saw eww no deep exhale 4 the sequel and this degrades my self esteem bit by bit and now not depressed due to my amazing fortitude which now that I think about it is probably the only thing keeping me together but I have given up on even trying to get in to a relationship

  13. Its a common misconception that flirting is so people can express interest and "hook" another.
    "flirt
    verb
    1.behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions"

    Its social interactive play and I like it as it is defined. If some one likes another I feel they should just be honest about it. Flirting is a dumb and too round about way lf convwying genuine interest.

  14. One of my cousins friend's told me he liked me…. And it was so awkward because I sat next to them… And i rejected them…. AND THEY GOT MAD AT ME! Like….?!?!?! Im also too young:/

  15. Jaiden I think people feel awkward about being rejected so they don't talk to the person anymore just in fear that it'd be brought up or some th ing

  16. Am I the only one who thinks its weird that Jaiden said she was hanging out with her ex friend? If their not friends anymore then why are they hanging out?

  17. 7:19 that's what I told an adult who was like ooo so garret huh? He is not though he is literally one of my best friends. I call him brother he calls me sister so we good

  18. 2:00 the reason people don’t want to make a relationship with someone after they rejected them is because being friends with them might make think that you’re not worth it or when you see them establishing a relationship with someone else you get super jealous

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